Mother's Day Minus One

Happy Mother’s Day! I fully realize that I’m one of the luckiest women in the world, with two beautiful, fantastic kids and a husband I cherish. In case you ever wonder, I don’t take it for granted in even the tiniest way. Today was really lovely, even though Andy (my “minus one”) was away; he didn’t miss his chance to send me flowers, a really pretty plant of miniature roses! We had a few nice chats on the phone, in the morning from England and the evening from Germany. He had a good weekend back home between meetings in Germany, and managed (besides lots of time with family and friends) to fit in three of his favorite things: a full English breakfast, a good hot curry, and fish & chips! Can’t beat that. I’m glad he doesn’t miss many holidays; nothing’s ever just right without him, or as sweet, or as fun.

That aside, it *was* a sweet and fun Mother’s Day! The best part was going to Chloe’s house for brunch this morning, even though my dad decided to stay home as he wasn’t feeling great. Chloe’s mom was there, and another friend as well, and Chloe made THE most killer Eggs Benedict I’ve probably ever had. Yum! And kumquat tart for dessert. It was so nice to see her and her mom and chat about things and reminisce. Maddie decided not to fall asleep on the drive there, even though it was naptime, so she was really cranky and loud the whole time, which was frustrating. Oliver, conversely, amused himself a lot, playing inside and out, so he won in the “easier to manage” contest this morning - an unusual accomplishment for him!
On the drive home, we stopped and gawked at our old house in Union, which is now well over 200 years old and is undergoing MAMMOTH renovations, including the demolition and partial rebuild of the house and workshops that once connected the main house to the barn. This is pretty much painful for us to see. My parents owned the house for 30 years, and I lived there from when I was two years old, so it’s very much a part of us all. I guess it’s good that it’s getting love and attention, but I’d prefer that it get love and attention and always remain exactly as we left it!! :-) I love that house.
Then we came home, by way of Rockland and a couple of errands (Maddie slept the whole time, and Oliver napped as well). By the time we got back to mom and dad’s house, dad was just finishing mowing the lawn, and he and Oliver decided to fly a kite, and promptly got it stuck in a tree. We all took some nice photos together, then played inside for a bit. After Maddie’s afternoon nap, we went for dinner at our favorite local restaurant, the Happy Clam, which specializes in German food and has (pork) Jaeger Schnitzel that is to die for. I can never order anything else, it’s that good. I don’t remember the last time that I was in Maine for Mother’s Day – it was so nice to be able to share the day with my wonderful mom!!
I won’t be able to post this for another day or so, as Crappoint – oops I mean Fairpoint - has failed again at setting up our services here in Maine when they said they would. Not that I expected them to. Heading up to bed now on Mother’s Day 2010. I am blessed to be the mom of my beautiful lambs, who make me laugh every day and are just the best things ever. Let me note just a few of the things I especially love about them, my 3 ½ and 1 year olds: I love that Ollie is so playful with his sister, and laughs when she’s silly, and is gentle with her, and gives her kisses. I love that Maddie fans her fingers over her lips and makes the most endearing “bubababa” sound, and that she forges her own way through the world, currently with a wonderful “s-crawl,” and that she points and smiles and says “Da-da” now when she sees Andy on our computer during a Skype call. I love that Ollie dances by slightly bending his knees, and that he’s super happy if you give him an umbrella or a flashlight or binoculars. That Maddie doesn’t just love to clap her hands, she loves to clap your hands. That Ollie is so full of love and enthusiasm (“Wow, Mommy, I loooooove going to the dump!” “I just looooove my dinosaur underwear!”). There is no end to the things I love about you both, my sweet babies.

Mr. Roboto

A little post for Daddy, so he can have a peek at our morning shenanigans. :-) Bit cloudy out there today, but that's fine as I have to pack for Maine and clean the house all day. We're just sitting around having our Cheerios now.... Maddie is still practicing her *extraordinarily* loud squawking skills, for no apparent reason except that she CAN. I need a cup of coffee.

Making tracks

Each in his or her own way... here's Maddie, showing off her new(ish) crawling skills (it's made my life a lot easier, since she's taken her time in crawling and walking!) - she's definitely getting around now, keeping us all on our toes. Sometimes she still tucks one leg beside her and one leg in front of her and plunks them along in little jumps; other times she crawls in the "traditional" fashion. Both ways are super cute.

Meanwhile, one of Ollie's favorite pastimes is still mowing the lawn with Daddy on the big tractor. He's careful to bend down and avoid the low hanging branches at the side of the yard (see first photo), and even gets to steer some of the time. Both boys pretty much love it to bits (see second photo).

Bowling Boys

Had a great day out a few weeks ago with Ollie's friend Ryan, sister Addie, and mom Carol -- we went bowling, Ollie's first time ever! They had a really good time - it's lucky that they put up special bumpers over the gutters, or these guys would never knock over one pin!!! In one photo, they're lying down, mainly because it takes sooooo long for the ball to get all the way down to the pins, you could take a nap while waiting!!

A glance back...

Time to step up the blog production again, now that Daddy's away and missing his lambs!! I have a big "April" folder of photos on my computer, but have posted very few of them, so I'm going to start there. Let's see... I'll start with a couple of "artistic shots" of Ollie playing with his new favorite toy - Magnatiles!! Our wonderful friends Cindy and Eric Middleton visited us last month on their way home to Ann Arbor from a trip to the Big Apple, and they brought Ollie the tiles as a gift... I have never seen him so taken with a toy, ever! He's constantly finding new ways to build them into creative constructions... a super long runway, an ice cream cone, a city of tents, a high tower, a spaceship... those are some of his favorites. Here are photos of one of the early houses we made together - so pretty with the light shining through!

It was SO fun to see Cindy and Eric again, after all these years (we figured it might be as many as ten). There are a few people you meet in your life that are just so lovely, you want to hold them in your pocket. I guess the best you can do is hold them in your heart, and get together whenever the opportunity comes!

Happy Birthday, Maddie!

Good Heavens! My friend, Jenna, mentioned recently that I haven't posted to the blog recently.... not only was I pleased (as always) to hear that someone actually reads the blog (!!), but I am now *shocked* to discover that I haven't even posted a birthday blog yet!!! Our beautiful Madeline turned One on April 2, while we were frolicking in Maine. We were sooo lucky that her birthday fell during the time that Andy was up there, too. We love it there all the time, and we get to see so much of Grandma Patty and Granddad Richie, BUT the best times of all are when Daddy is there with us, too (we're there a fair amount when Andy has to travel for work).

We started Maddie's birthday with our favorite morning activity - a walk to the harbor, with a stop along the way at the general store for coffee and pastry. Later in the morning, Maddie and I went to mom and dad's house to decorate her cakes, while Andy and Oliver worked on putting up a homemade swing at our house... a valiant but ultimately hopeless effort. I think they had fun trying, though. The rest of the day was just peaceful - the weather was amazing, sunny, warm, and bright. Maddie shares her birthday with her Aunt Suzanne (my brother's wife), and we celebrated Suz's birthday with a special dinner at mom and dad's house - filet mignon! Yum.

The next day, we had a little birthday party for Maddie - she woke up from her nap just in time! Some of our fabulous friends and neighbors attended, and we were lucky that both Eli and Aidan were in town as well. Maddie tolerated wearing the cutest little birthday crown for a while - so sweet! The cakes were super yummy - chocolate (Martha Stewart recipe, very easy), one with white chocolate frosting, the other with buttercream. Maddie even thought that the ocassion of her birthday would be a good time to practice her crawling... she's a late bloomer, in that area! She's just the best girl, with the best big brother - and we're the luckiest parents.

Sooooo Big!!

Maddie has two new great tricks - she's clapping her hands when we do, and also raising her hands above her head for "sooooooo big!!" And she's sooooo cute!! Meanwhile, Ollie and Granddaddy have been VERY busy building an air craft carrier in the workshop for a week or so; Granddaddy takes the design and implementation very seriously! Excellent attention to detail. We got a couple of cool "Blue Angel" jets at the museum yesterday, perfect for landing on the new airstrip.